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Teach your children
Recently a friend asked me confidentially how I had managed to stay out of debt. She was concerned about dealing with her own credit card debt that she couldn't seem to get a handle on. I think she turned to me because I have never had any credit card debt and I have always paid off my credit card bills completely every month. It simply never occured to me to do otherwise when I had the choice, and I have been lucky enough to not have credit card debt from difficult circumstances (health emergency, school debt). I believe the root of this behavior began when I was 10 or 11 and my mother decided to try something new. Right around the time when I started to want designer jeans and expensive sweaters she decided to institute a clothing allowance. Every year I got a certain amount of money to spend on clothes and that's all I got. When I ran out, tough luck. I learned quickly which purchases I soon regretted and which purchases I felt good about. By the time I graduated high school, I had learned very practically how to budget, spend wisely, and make good money decisions. My suggestion: think of very practical ways to involve your children in money decisions as soon as possible to begin good behaviors early. Anyone have other ideas?
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Thanks for sharing one of your early life lessons on the importance of learning about money when you are young (and at home).
Parents can start with giving their kids a single topic budget to manage - like holiday gifts for grandparents. They can help the kids create the shopping list, research prices, help buy the items. Parents can also create an incentive for the kids to find a way to spend less than the assigned budget. Free movie pass, $5 for every $5 under budget, etc. Lots to teach and lots of time to do it if parents start young and take it one age-appropriate step at a time. |
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